Lessons from the Herd

Singing, Dancing, and Sharing Stories with Horses

There is a rhythm to working with horses—a dance of trust, movement, and connection. At Art, Heart, and Hoofbeats Sanctuary (AHH), we are constantly evolving, just as our herd does. Whether it's deepening our understanding of little movements of our herd members, or finding new ways to share stories, every step forward is guided by the lessons our rescue horses teach us.

AHH Embassador Allison uses two brushes to work on all of Sunnies unwanted winter coat!

Dancing with Boundaries

Boundaries are a language of respect, whether between people or with horses. We see it when Jakers gently shakes his head a volunteer to remind them of personal space, or when Ritz signals with a flick of his ear that he needs a moment. Learning to communicate through movement—whether it’s setting a boundary or inviting connection—is an art form. And just like a dance, the steps might take practice, but when done right, it creates harmony.

The Song of Connection

There is music in the barn—not just in the rustling of hay and the steady exhale of horses, but in the voices of those who come to AHH seeking something more. Whether it's humming while brushing Moon’s coat or a volunteer softly singing as they mindfully walk with Sunny, sound is a bridge that connects us to ourselves and each other. Horses listen without judgment, making space for every voice to be heard.

Growing Through Change

Realigning with what truly matters. Just like Fable, who once kept her distance but now leans in with trust, AHH is always shifting and growing. We embrace new ways to teach, to heal, and to welcome others into the fold. Change is inevitable, but with it comes the chance to deepen our impact and create a stronger community.

Sharing Stories, Strengthening Bonds

AHH Ambassadors are sharing stories and inviting individual equine herd members to share a story or a feeling with them—with some surprising results. Horses are deepening connections, calling out to their human herd members, and even choosing the Ambassador they prefer to work with. Dancing and singing with our herd leads to relaxation and fun, and despite all the movement, we see their heads lower in a relaxed recognition that they are safe, adored, and valued—just as every herd member, human or equine, finds when they arrive at AHH.

The Herd as a Mirror

In the presence of horses, we see ourselves more clearly. We learn when to step forward, when to pause, and when to offer comfort. We find our voice, our balance, and our sense of belonging. The herd teaches us that connection doesn’t mean losing ourselves—it means being fully present, listening, and learning from one another.

At AHH, every day is a lesson, every horse is a teacher, and every person who steps into the barn becomes part of a larger story—one of growth, respect, and unwavering connection.

What lessons have you learned from your "herd"? Where do you feel safe to sing, tell your stories and be your true self? We all need time and space to find our way back to our truest self and "our herd". Take time to connect with yourself this week. You are valuable!